How to Reinvent Yourself

 

How to Reinvent Yourself


A lot of times you find yourself with the want for a change you're longing for. Maybe your writing is getting off track or your tone is off and you're not being as witty as you should be. You're in the process of 'forgetting your sense of self and the new direction for you is to change. In order to begin, change can involve two different approaches and start with what you want. If you want to change your tone as a writer, ask yourself, "do I need to change my writing style?" or "do I need to change my tone based on what's the prevailing style of writing, when you would not change the tone based on your style?" In case you're choosing to reevaluate yourself from a professional perspective, start thinking about who would perceive your writing from a professional perspective. If you decide not to change your style, have you thought about how you could change your tone from someone who has a vested interest in your writing? Do you care about your vision and about your name and company?

If you've changed your writing style, make sure to edit your writing and don't forget to carefully word every word. If you're considering a 'Renovation,’ there are three possible outcomes you're looking at at the moment:

> You spend 100% of your time correcting the appearance of your writing style, or you continue to produce quality work.

> You choose to "remake" yourself by constantly staying aware of when your appearance doesn't look like your previously published work, but then always strike out to improve it.

Let's consider these consequences differently. A lot of times individuals don't look at their appearance when they're pushing themselves to be better than they ever have. To me, the truth about my face is not something I worried about when I was eighteen, but now I do. Maybe my appearance comes down to something I'm missing, but at the end of the day, it's something that's felt throughout my entire life.

If I notice anything, what I do about it is to look at the positive side and see where my flaws can be changed. Perhaps I'm stretching my hair in a manner that makes it look greener, or I could put on a false beard or hairpiece to give myself a full and genuine facial appearance. The positive and negative effects are the choices I make.


If I feel I need to change something about myself because I feel I've been perceived differently, I end up spending my money and my time on changes. Now imagine me as a new person and, hypothetically, I find that there are different barriers that I want to create.

As much as I'd like to believe that my gender isn't a huge barrier, my appearance does affect the way I'm portrayed as a woman and in general, it matters what my appearance looks like. If I've come to know that I have to change my appearance now, it's also because I've known for some time that I'm 'looking in the mirror' with a frame of mind that I need to have a more accepted and complete face. I wouldn't consider myself more beautiful than other women, but I have been told for quite some time that if I wanted to be able to actually be successful as a published author, that I should stay slim.

I tend to overanalyze things that I truly don't need to analyze. I learn about things not as I go along because I'm enamored with what other people are doing. Seeing what's 'in' and what's 'out' of what's becoming quite prevalent. I'll go to a salon to have my hair done, but when they asked if I wanted to tone it down, the solution wasn't, “of course we'll do that.” I understand that it's not that great of a wig but I'm excited to feel attractive again. I'll look into it, get it done, and then I have two options: I will either have a flair-up wig, or I will get my hair cut off and take my hair off. So, while the problem with the wig is that it's a really bad idea, the solution to the haircut is that it's an awesome idea. In the end, I don't force myself to do anything and I respect my right to do what I want. That doesn't mean I'm going to turn anyone away or make it a big deal. Yes, I think it’s a good idea to change the way I look, but I have to do what I choose and I can’t change anyone else. Any change will come from within.


Here are some of the steps I've had to do to change my Lifestyle:


1. See yourself outside yourself.

Imagine you're a sculptor. A sculptor looks at his or her piece of the gravestone and endlessly questions new ways to shape it. And if he or she thinks of the commodity to change, there's no emotional attachment. They just do it. This is how you need to see yourself — as a work of art, always in progress. No need to get worried, or come down hard on yourself when you see a commodity you don't like. Rather, like an artist, just get to work.


2. Habits that are associated with the thing you want to change:

Far too frequently, people concentrate too important on the thing they want to change rather than the habits that formed the thing in the first place. For illustration, They try to break being fat by doing a lot of ab exercises, without admitting that the problem is their poor diet. To truly resuscitate aspects of yourself, you have to find the habit that created that particularity in the first place — and also acclimate the habit. 


3. Exercise every day:

Change isn't a commodity you do some days and also take a break from other days.
Change is a shift in life. It requires diurnal fidelity, to the point where that new habit takes the place of an old one and no longer requires conscious trouble.


 4. Set realistic pretensions. 

You can’t just wake up one morning and say, “ I ’m not going to be intolerant presently!”  Yes, you are. And you actually help yourself by admitting that a bad habit like that won’t be answered incontinently. Rather, set the thing to be more patient during your platoon meeting that happens every morning. Use that as an isolated practice space and a subconscious memorial of what it's you want to exercise. Focus on that for many weeks, and also go from there. 


5. Constantly look in the glass.

Effects get dangerous when you refuse to stop and really look at yourself — when you avoid tone- reflection. There's a time and a place for “ go go go” mode, and also there's a time and place for reflection mode. Both are necessary. And you'll snappily find that unless you take the time to ask yourself the tough questions, you'll fall off track and not know how you got there.


 

6. Compass yourself with people who'll tell you the verity. 

Still,” also you have a serious problem If everyone around you is telling you “ yes. You need some people who are going to challenge you. You need people who won’t be hysterical to tell you the verity. Tough feedback is essential for particular growth. 


 7. You have to take pitfalls. 

You'll noway come to the person you want to be by continuing to be the person you presently are. If you want to grow then get out of your comfort zone. That’s it. And unless you're willing to take that threat, to take that uncomfortable vault into the unknown, you'll ever stay exactly where you are. 


Reinvention is an art. 

It's a process, neither quick fix” nor a “ late result.” It's deliberate practice, day in and day out until you realize who it's you want to be, you formerly were each on. 



Comments

  1. Sometimes we are stuck with our past. How to handle this situation??? :/

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    1. If you read this blog carefully, then you could find your answer :).
      More: If you want me to write something about "how to handle or get rid of your past". I will surely write on this topic. Thanks

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    2. I'll be waiting for this blog.

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